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Developmental Milestones

Let’s briefly review some of the options more commonly used to monitor children’s development.

Developmental Milestone Checklists and Charts

There are many factors that can influence a child’s development: genetics, gender, social interactions, personal experiences, temperaments and the environment. It is critical that educators understand what is “typical” before they can consider what is “atypical.” Developmental Milestones provide a clear guideline as to what children should be able to do at set age ranges. However, it is important to note that each child in your classroom develops at their own individualized pace, and they will reach certain milestones at various times within the age range.

Developmental Milestone Charts are essential when setting up your classroom environments. Once you know what skills children should be able to do at specific ages, you can then plan developmentally appropriate learning goals, and you can set up your classroom environment with age appropriate materials. Developmental Milestone Charts are also extremely useful to teachers and parents when guiding behaviors. In order to set realistic expectations for children, it is suggested that teachers and parents review all ages and stages of development to understand how milestones evolve. Not only do skills build upon each other, they lay a foundation for the next milestone that’s to come. Developmental Milestone Charts are usually organized into 4 Domains: Physical, Cognitive, Language, and Social -Emotional.


Table 3.1 – Gross Motor Milestones from 2 Months to 2 Years

Typical Age What Most Children Do by This Age
2 months Can hold head up and begins to push up when lying on tummy

Makes smoother movements with arms and legs

 

 

 

4 months

Holds head steady, unsupported

Pushes down on legs when feet are on a hard surface

May be able to roll over from tummy to back

Brings hands to mouth

When lying on stomach, pushes up to elbows

 

 

6 months

Rolls over in both directions (front to back, back to front)

Begins to sit without support

When standing, supports weight on legs and might bounce

Rocks back and forth, sometimes crawling backward before moving forward

 

 

9 months

Stands, holding on

Can get into sitting position

Sits without support

Pulls to stand

Crawls

 

1 year

Gets to a sitting position without help

Pulls up to stand, walks holding on to furniture (“cruising”)

May take a few steps without holding on

May stand alone

 

18 months

Walks alone

May walk up steps and run

Pulls toys while walking

Can help undress self

 

 

 

2 years

Stands on tiptoe

Kicks a ball

Begins to run

Climbs onto and down from furniture without help

Walks up and down stairs holding on

Throws ball overhand


Table 3.2 – Fine Motor Milestones from 2 Months to 2 Years1

Typical Age What Most Children Do by This Age
 

2 months

Grasps reflexively

Does not reach for objects

Holds hands in fist

 

 

4 months

Brings hands to mouth

Uses hands and eyes together, such as seeing a toy and reaching for it

Follows moving things with eyes from side to side

Can hold a toy with whole hand (palmar grasp) and shake it and swing at dangling toys

 

6 months

Reaches with both arms

Brings things to mouth

Begins to pass things from one hand to the other

 

9 months

Puts things in mouth

Moves things smoothly from one hand to the other

Picks up things between thumb and index finger (pincer grip)

 

 

1 year

Reaches with one hand

Bangs two things together

Puts things in a container, takes things out of a container

Lets things go without help

Pokes with index (pointer) finger

 

 

18 months

Scribbles on own

Can help undress herself

Drinks from a cup

Eats with a spoon with some accuracy

Stacks 2-4 objects

 

 

 

2 years

Builds towers of 4 or more blocks

Might use one hand more than the other

Makes copies of straight lines and circles

Enjoys pouring and filling

Unbuttons large buttons

Unzips large zippers

Drinks and feeds self with more accuracy


Table 3.3 – Cognitive Milestones from 2 Months to 2 Years15

Typical Age What Most Children Do by This Age
 

2 months

Pays attention to faces

Begins to follow things with eyes and recognize people at a distance

Begins to act bored (cries, fussy) if activity doesn’t change

 

 

 

4 months

Lets you know if she is happy or sad

Responds to affection

Reaches for toy with one hand

Uses hands and eyes together, such as seeing a toy and reaching for it

Follows moving things with eyes from side to side

Watches faces closely

Recognizes familiar people and things at a distance

 

 

6 months

Looks around at things nearby

Brings things to mouth

Shows curiosity about things and tries to get things that are out of reach

Begins to pass things from one hand to the other

 

 

9 months

Watches the path of something as it falls

Looks for things he sees you hide

Plays peek-a-boo

Puts things in mouth

Moves things smoothly from one hand to the other

Picks up things like cereal o’s between thumb and index finger

 

 

 

 

 

1 year

Explores things in different ways, like shaking, banging, throwing

Finds hidden things easily

Looks at the right picture or thing when it’s named

Copies gestures

Starts to use things correctly; for example, drinks from a cup, brushes hair

Bangs two things together

Puts things in a container, takes things out of a container

Lets things go without help

Pokes with index (pointer) finger

Follows simple directions like “pick up the toy”

18 months Knows what ordinary things are for; for example, telephone, brush, spoon

Points to get the attention of others

Shows interest in a doll or stuffed animal by pretending to feed

Points to one body part

Scribbles on own

Can follow 1-step verbal commands without any gestures; for example, sits when you say “sit down”

2 years Finds things even when hidden under two or three covers

Begins to sort shapes and colors

Completes sentences and rhymes in familiar books

Plays simple make-believe games

Builds towers of 4 or more blocks

Might use one hand more than the other

Follows two-step instructions such as “Pick up your shoes and put them in the closet.”

Names items in a picture book such as a cat, bird, or dog


Table 3.4 – Language Milestones from 2 Months to 2 Years 16

Typical Age What Most Children Do By This Age
2 months Coos, makes gurgling sounds

Turns head toward sounds

 

4 months

Begins to babble

Babbles with expression and copies sounds he hears

Cries in different ways to show hunger, pain, or being tired

 

 

6 months

Responds to sounds by making sounds

Strings vowels together when babbling (“ah,” “eh,” “oh”) and likes

taking turns with parent while making sounds

Responds to own name

Makes sounds to show joy and displeasure

Begins to say consonant sounds (jabbering with “m,” “b”)

 

 

9 months

Understands “no”

Makes a lot of different sounds like “mamamama” and “bababababa”

Copies sounds and gestures of others

Uses fingers to point at things

 

 

1 year

Responds to simple spoken requests

Uses simple gestures, like shaking head “no” or waving “bye-bye”

Makes sounds with changes in tone (sounds more like speech)

Says “mama” and “dada” and exclamations like “uh-oh!”

Tries to say words you say

 

18 months

Says several single words

Says and shakes head now

Points to show others what is wanted

 

 

2 years

Points to things or pictures when they are named

Knows names of familiar people and body parts

Says sentences with 2 to 4 words

Follows simple instructions

Repeats words overheard in conversation

Points to things in a book


Table 3.5 – Social and Emotional Milestones from 2 Months to 2 Years 17

Typical Age What Most Children Do By This Age
 

2 months

Begins to smile at people

Can briefly calm self (may bring hands to mouth and suck on hand)

Tries to look at parent

 

4 months

Smiles spontaneously, especially at people

Likes to play with people and might cry when playing stops

Copies some movements and facial expressions, like smiling or frowning

 

6 months

Knows familiar faces and begins to know if someone is a stranger

Likes to play with others, especially parents

Responds to other people’s emotions and often seems happy

Likes to look at self in a mirror

 

9 months

May be afraid of strangers

May be clingy with familiar adults

Has favorite toys

 

 

 

1 year

Is shy or nervous with strangers

Cries when mom or dad leaves

Has favorite things and people

Shows fear in some situations

Hands you a book when she wants to hear a story

Repeats sounds or actions to get attention

Puts out arm or leg to help with dressing

Plays games such as “peek-a-boo” and “pat-a-cake”

 

 

 

18 months

Likes to hand things to others as play

May have temper tantrums

May be afraid of strangers

Shows affection to familiar people

Plays simple pretend, such as feeding a doll

May cling to caregivers in new situations

Points to show others something interesting

Explores alone but with parent close by

 

 

2 years

Copies others, especially adults and older children

Gets excited when with other children

Shows more and more independence

Shows defiant behavior (doing what he has been told not to)

Plays mainly beside other children, but is beginning to include other children, such as in chase games


Table 15.6 – Gross Motor Milestones from 3 Years to 5 Years18

Typical Age What Most Children Do by This Age
 

3 years

Climbs well

Runs easily

Pedals a tricycle (3-wheel bike)

Walks up and down stairs, one foot on each step

4 years Hops and stands on one foot up to 2 seconds

Catches a bounced ball most of the time

 

 

5 years

Stands on one foot for 10 seconds or longer

Hops; may be able to skip

Can do a somersault

Can use the toilet on own

Swings and climbs


Table 15.7 – Fine Motor Milestones from 3 Years to 5 Years 19

Typical Age What Most Children Do by This Age
 

3 years

Copies a circle with pencil or crayon

Turns book pages one at a time

Builds towers of more than 6 blocks

Screws and unscrews jar lids or turns door handle

4 years Pours, cuts with supervision, and mashes own food

Draws a person with 2 to 4 body parts

Uses scissors

Starts to copy some capital letters

5 years Can draw a person with at least 6 body parts

Can print some letters or numbers

Copies a triangle and other geometric shapes

Uses a fork and spoon and sometimes a table knife


Table 15.8 – Cognitive Milestones from 3 Years to 5 Years 20

Typical Age What Most Children Do by This Age
 

3 years

Can work toys with buttons, levers, and moving parts

Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and people

Does puzzles with 3 or 4 pieces

Understands what “two” means

 

 

 

4 years

Names some colors and some numbers

Understands the idea of counting

Starts to understand time

Remembers parts of a story

Understands the idea of “same” and “different”

Plays board or card games

Tells you what he thinks is going to happen next in a book

5 years Counts 10 or more things

Knows about things used every day, like money and food


Table 15.9 – Language Milestones from 3 Years to 5 Years 21

Typical Age What Most Children Do By This Age
 

 

 

 

3 years

Follows instructions with 2 or 3 steps

Can name most familiar things

Understands words like “in,” “on,” and “under”

Says first name, age, and sex

Names a friend

Says words like “I,” “me,” “we,” and “you” and some plurals (cars,

dogs, cats)

Talks well enough for strangers to understand most of the time

Carries on a conversation using 2 to 3 sentences

4 years Knows some basic rules of grammar, such as correctly using “he” and “she”

Sings a song or says a poem from memory such as the “Itsy Bitsy Spider” or the “Wheels on the Bus”

Tells stories

Can say first and last name

5 years Speaks very clearly

Tells a simple story using full sentences

Uses future tense; for example, “Grandma will be here.”

Says name and address


Table 15.10 – Social and Emotional Milestones from 3 Years to 5 Years 22

Typical Age What Most Children Do by This Age
 

 

 

 

3 years

Copies adults and friends

Shows affection for friends without prompting

Takes turns in games

Shows concern for a crying friend

Dresses and undresses self

Understands the idea of “mine” and “his” or “hers”

Shows a wide range of emotions

Separates easily from mom and dad

May get upset with major changes in routine

 

 

 

4 years

Enjoys doing new things

Is more and more creative with make-believe play

Would rather play with other children than by self

Cooperates with other children

Plays “mom” or “dad”

Often can’t tell what’s real and what’s make-believe

Talks about what she likes and what she is interested in

 

 

 

5 years

Wants to please friends

Wants to be like friends

More likely to agree with rules

Likes to sing, dance, and act

Is aware of gender

Can tell what’s real and what’s make-believe

Shows more independence

Is sometimes demanding and sometimes very cooperative